In the simplest of ways orgasm is the same as what men experience while ejaculation. On your many searches you might have realized that there is a great deal of discussion on the female orgasm rather than the male orgasm, no it is not because women are some sort of mystical creatures that need to be studied before they are touched. The reason that you see women orgasm being discussed so much is because it is really hard to tell if the women is really having an orgasm or not and if she isn’t how are men supposed to make her orgasm.
In actuality when men orgasm they release a quick outburst of semen from the penis this notifies that they have successfully reached climax. Women while orgasming do not release any such fluids, except for women who squirt upon orgasm of course but that does not relate to most of us, a women experiences change in blood levels, deep breathing and contraction in her muscles during orgasm along with excessive moaning all of this is hard to notice as most are internal feelings and the moans can easily be faked. Due to which there is a lot of discussion about women and their orgasms. This article will be focusing more on how to make a women orgasm with respect to sexual intercourse. Further on we will covering three various positions of fornication that helps a women orgasm.
Position One – Girl on Top
The way that this position works is that the male lies down on his back straight as the woman gets on top of him with her legs on either side of his hips, use your hands to direct the penis into the vagina and slowly start to move. Rather than bouncing up and down try to rock front and back, make sure your breasts are touching your partner’s chest. Once you have a steady pace going use your hands to slowly circle around you pelvis in a motion of the number eight or circles.
This position is extremely popular when it comes to sex as it is closely associated with a woman being in control, with a male lying down straight he cannot control the pace and the action of the thrusting for which a woman can use this position to attain pleasure according to her comfort. The reason that it is so effective is because in this position the woman has control on the components of sex such as speed and pace, along with the force with which the penis enters the vagina. This position also brushes the penis along the clitoris which acts to the excitement in a woman’s body which in turn will help her orgasm. There are also variations to this position that can be used to further arouse a woman. You can turn around and face his feet and repeat the entire process, sit all the way up or ask him to elevate himself a little bit. This way you will be in contact with much more of his body ensuring that you have a surface to rub yourself against. Make sure that you also add the use of your hand as penetration alone does not work for a lot of women.
Position Two – Coital Alignment Technique
This position requires the female to lay down on her back and guiding the male to place himself in between her legs. Once he is well placed in between the female’s legs, the female should hold onto his head with her hands and cup her legs around the male’s waist. This will create a submission lock which should position the couple’s genitals on top of each other. The male should insert his cock inside the vagina and rather than repeating the in and out motion should focus on grinding along the abdomen and vaginal area of the female, this movement should create a rubbing motion with the penis still lodged within the vagina. The focus should be more on rubbing the two bodies together. Make sure to focus on angle and position rather than speed or pace with this position.
The name of this method may clearly suggest that this position requires the positioning and alignment of the pelvis with the pubic bone. The prime focus of this method is the stimulation of the clitoris for maximum pleasure and of course in the hope of reaching climax. This position is great for a lot of women as it exposes them to a lot of surface area to work with and continuously focuses on working on their clitoris. It is also very popular as it is very easy to work with this position. For even an increased stimulation of the clitoris it is advised that once in connection to the position prescribed spread your labia with your hands so that more area of your partners body rubs directly along your clitoris.
Position Three – Sideways Straddle
This is a position that require much more practice and coordination between you and your partner, the position is tough to get into and it is advised that you watch some sort of visual content of how to position yourself before attempting it yourself. To briefly explain it the man in this positions lies on his back straight with one leg arched with his foot still touching the floor. The other is to be left straight. The female gets on top of him and positions herself in a way that the raised leg is in between her legs and she is facing away from her partner. The male may hold on to the hips of his partner to help her balance. Once you are in an equilibrium position guide his penis inside of you.
This positions makes you straddle on one of his knees, which means that during intercourse you are actually rubbing your vagina against his knew, exposing your clitoris to immense pleasure.